![]() Family members turn on each other to protect this poor victim of the world. The family falls for the story that their narcissistic family member is a good person copping unfair flack from scapegoated family members. To secure a constant supply of sympathy and emotional support from those around them, the covert narcissistic parent continuously uses each individual family members normal, imperfect behaviour against them to perpetuate their own victim status, and to secure endless amounts of sympathy from others. Covert narcissistic parents brainwash their children into believing they truly are all bad. It doesn’t matter how vile the abusive action is against another family member, the narcissist will use extreme forms of mental manipulation to convince other family members of the challenging family members deep-seated issues. They have an innate ability to escape accountability in any given situation by turning situations in which they are at fault, right around to make the other person wrong. They ultimately centre their relationships with their family members around a story which highlights their victimhood and adjusts their identity to appear like that of a helpless, mistreated child who needs rescuing and protecting from a mean, bad world. ![]() ![]() The covert narcissist is an extremely dangerous and malicious breed of a narcissist. The covert narcissist aims to keep the family members behaviour under tight control, securely enmeshing each family member with them, and convinced that they (the true victim’s of abuse) are the main problem in their relationship with this narcissist. Children with a covert narcissist for a parent live in what feels like a continuous whirlwind of confusion and upheaval. ![]()
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